Hi Ken 🙂
It’s been the most miraculous 18 hours since we talked…
Something deep shifted in our two hours with you. Actually a lot of things, some of which I’m aware of, others which will probably reveal themselves in time.
– For the first time ever, I am 100% IN to this relationship. The “we had a disagreement about family vision and can’t be together” escape route is off the table. Closing off that back door once and for all and fully committing to this relationship makes me really happy.
– I’m no longer getting triggered by M all the time. Much of the distortion that we identified has been washed away. I’m just enjoying discovering who she really is and know in my bones that it’s going to continue to get better and better.
– What you said about how you’ve known me as someone who’s had plenty of freedom and loneliness touched something deep in me. I get that I’m being invited to step into a whole new world of connection, that M was delivered to me to usher me into that world, and I feel like the luckiest man alive.
Thank you for your generosity, your love, and your exceptional skill. It means the world to me & us, and I can quite honestly say that what you gave to us in those two hours will change the entire course of our relationship. When we hit those inevitable moments of “red,” your voice and face will be there in my mind to talk me off the ledge.