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Vibrators and Porn

These two technologies reveal a critical difference between men and women—that may surprise you!

Men’s machinery isn’t all that hard to operate. Most healthy males have easy access to as much climax as they want. They don’t even need a partner. Climax in and of itself isn’t necessarily all that gratifying though — it can feel like something’s missing.

Women’s machinery is a little trickier. They have no problem finding a willing partner, but obviously that alone isn’t necessarily sufficient. They often end up producing more sensation in their partner’s body than they feel in their own. And this, while enjoyable, isn’t enough.

(This can be seen in everything from the so-called “orgasm gap” between men and women, to the predominance of women in the sex trade, to the fact that women are more likely to moan during their partner’s orgasm—to accelerate and enhance it—than during their own.)

It’s revealing to look at how men and women use technology to compensate. The technology women are most likely to turn to is the vibrator. And the most common technology men turn to is… porn.

So think about that.

Women are getting their vitally important missing ingredient from focused genital stimulation.

And men are getting theirs from exposure to other aroused human beings.

In other words,

Men have easy access to direct orgasm, but their missing ingredient, the thing they deeply crave, is empathetic orgasm.

And women have abundant access to empathetic orgasm—and often default to that—but what their bodies deeply crave is the direct experience of orgasm.

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  1. Ken Blackman
    Ken Blackman says:

    This just in. A study recently published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine and reported on in Business Insider, asked 1,516 men and women about their sexual fantasies.

    They were given a list of over fifty fantasy scenarios — two partners, sex in public, oral sex, watching others, dominance or submission, etc. — and asked to rank each one on a scale of 1 to 7.

    Topping the list for men, at 88.3% saying they fantasize about this, was, “I like to feel romantic emotions during a sexual relationship.”

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