A more refined approach

to relationships

Maybe your relationship isn’t suffering from loss of passion… but rather, fear of passion.

Maybe in your attempts to avoid rocking the boat or losing your partner… you lost yourself.

“My goal is not to diminish the raw intensity of intimate relating. My goal is for you both to become adept in the heat of the fire and stay connected, so you can experience all of what you came to relationship for in the first place.”

-Ken Blackman

“In one call...

Ken helped me get clearer than I have been in years around what I want in relationships and my life.

“I learned...

as much in that one session as I had learned in a year of group classes…”

For the last 16 years

Ken Blackman has been at the forefront

of a new approach

to relationships, communication, sex, and man-woman dynamics.

“Holy sh*t,

what did you do [to my boyfriend]? And how did you accomplish that in one weekend? Amazing! Thank you, thank you!!”

You can craft a much better relationship than you can ever find.

Ken Blackman helps people build custom-tailored, joyous, resilient relationships. He has been a full-time relationship coach since 1999, teaching workshops and working one-on-one with select clients from San Francisco and New York to Paris and Bali. Ken is a passionate, fearless Emotional Smokejumper working in the arenas of sex, love and intimate human connection.

“Ken Blackman...

understands women’s bodies better than most of us do ourselves…”

Contact Ken Blackman


  • Europe
  • Montreal
  • Los Angeles
  • Austin
  • Vancouver/Toronto
  • Open Relationship Program
  • Advanced Coach Mentorship Program


  • San Francisco VIP coaching sessions
  • Brussels Advanced 5-day Retreat
  • Paris Introductory Workshop
  • Portland: Penetration/Relating Workshop
  • Marin Couples Course
  • Santa Cruz Man-Woman Course
  • Passion: Hot Sex, or Fighting Like Cats And Dogs?
  • NYC – Invitation-only Men’s Course
  • LA – New Masculine Program
  • Pittsburgh – A Course in Human Dynamics